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CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
4/22/2018 8:03 am

As the stereotypical lying, cheating, married male, and ALSO one that is convinced he is clearly in one of those "don't ask /don't tell (and I'd add "don't rub her face in it") situations, this post seems tailor made for me! So what am I seeking:
1. Well, first and foremost - SEX! YES, good old dick in pussy fucking - as well as all the variations to that! I may be 61 now, but i'm an EXTREMELY fit 61 and miss all that.

But more in line with your point, I'm also seeking:
2. Human touch -Mrs. C was never big on this to begin with, and NOW?
3. Talking - I'm was never a big "talker", someone that needs to "explore my feelings" but GEEZ at least say "hello", "good bye" and the basics!
4. Anticipation - you nailed it there!!

I've had (OK, MORE than my share ) of relationships via this place. They mostly all ran the predictable course of petering out when the NRE did too. A few (XLBF [eX Lover Best Friend], DrBB [Doctor Big Boobs]) evolved in to genuine. life long friendships. Only once did I genuinely cry when it was over, perhaps because of how suddenly, unexpectedly, and prematurely, it occurred.

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OldrHarleyGuy 72M

4/22/2018 8:31 am

Wow!! Just described my situation to the T and to the period, I just never could put it out like that though. This has happened to me so many times before, but from the other side of the gender fence!!

There is still always hope though, just don't give up, the right one will come along, although it may take some time, but it will be worth the wait. While not maybe sounding likely at this time, it could even be a past lover that has changed and done some growing up and realizing and learning more about life.

For myself, there is the hope of one that I've known for a life time, since back in HS as a matter of fact. We lost track of each other for almost 40yrs, but out of the blue, ran across each other about a year ago in the most unusual of circumstances. She moved to and lives in a different part of the country, but we have been communicating as often as possible and have gotten together several times since, when the jobs and times permit. We can talk about anything and everything and are non judgmental of each other and the things we have gone through and done individually during the years we lost each other. For she and I, I think each confession just makes and fortifies the desires we have to be together, all that greater. As she has said, " It's just life and being human, we have to get over it and move on".

Hopefully for you it will be that way and the right one will come along sooner or maybe even later that understands your desires and needs, maybe even as I said, it will be an old lover that has had the light come on and rethinks things and has come to a better understanding of the concepts of a relationship with such a fabulous lady like you. Just keep and open mind and don't give up on all men, there are a few of us that do still think a bit different.


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
4/22/2018 11:18 am

I can't help feeling a bit sorry for myself, and embarrassed, foolish. *Sigh* That is the most painful feeling, next to the realization that it's really over. That what I thought was there, wasn't there for very long, or only there in words.

Baby, I've visited that place recently. It's a heart wrenching place to be in. I think maybe if we got together, an open hug & a good cry would do us both some good.

Thoughts from the Garden...


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
4/23/2018 2:01 pm

Girl you know I want to give you that "dump that chump" talk! But I won't. I know all about wanting things to be different so bad that we act like fools sometimes and then get angry at ourselves about it. I was just having that moment recently!

You description of a lover is perfect..... very well said!


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